Full Story of How Brad and Angelina Went From Bitter Enemies to Friends
We now know
the fated journey, during which Brad got into a disagreement with his
15-year-old son Maddox, would lead to an explosive FBI investigation into what
really happened on the plane.
Less than a
year earlier the couple had posed together on the red carpet while promoting
their latest movie together, By the Sea—ironically a film about the breakdown
of a marriage. Despite the depressing subject matter, Brad and Angelina acted
like two people deeply in love as they held hands and looked adoringly into one
another's eyes while photographers joyfully snapped away.
Their
romance had a rocky beginning, due to the perceived overlap with Brad's
previous marriage to Jennifer Aniston. Yet it didn't take long for Brangelina
to become the hottest couple in Hollywood. During their 11 years together,
Angelina transformed from the "other woman" into a regal world-class
humanitarian and director, while Brad managed to shed any doubt over whether he
should have stayed with his first wife by becoming a doting father to six
incredible children.
To describe
them as "head over heels" during their happiest moments would be an
understatement. As a source, who socialized with them on a number of occasions
before their split, explained to me, "I've never spent time with two people
more intoxicated with one another. The chemistry when they were in the same
room together was palpable."
But then,
seven months ago, it all fell apart. As they traveled from France to the U.S.,
they stopped in Minnesota to refuel, setting off a chain of events that sparked
a public battle of epic proportions not seen since Brad's split from Jen.
It was clear
from the moment the sensational news broke that Angelina had filed for divorce
that this was not going to be like the goop-sanctioned breakups we have been
privy to in the past. Instead of consciously uncoupling amid joint photo
opportunities with estranged spouses and co-parents putting on their best movie
star smiles, there were jaw-dropping allegations, most of which were aimed in
Brad's direction. Had he been drinking excessively? Did he get too close to his
Allied co-star Marion Cotillard? Was he too strict with the kids? The
never-ending blame over who was really at fault for the disintegration of the
most public of marriages played out on the front pages of newspapers around the
world.
Little did
we realize, as the headlines started to pile up, that the explosive nature of
the breakup was merely mirroring the relationship dynamics that had been
playing out behind closed doors in the months before that fated trip.
"Things had been volatile in their relationship for a little while,"
says an insider. "They had crazy fights and wouldn't speak for a bit. They
would take some time apart, go on location, calm down and miss each other.
"But,
no matter how bad it got, Brad, especially, was never planning on walking away.
Every so often, Angelina threatened divorce, but in Brad's eyes, their lives
were stressful because they were raising six kids, things were always going to
work out."
Obviously he
was wrong.
By
Thanksgiving, the war between the Jolie-Pitts was reaching fever pitch and Brad
had barely seen the kids since Jolie filed for divorce seeking primary custody.
Confusion still remained even after he was cleared by authorities in the plane
incident. Then when he was temporarily granted only supervised visitation, it
ominously seemed that Brad and Angelina would never see eye to eye.
But as 2017
rolled around, there was a ceasefire. Finally, the two managed to agree on
something— and that was to seal any court documents relating to custody, thus
putting an end to the publicly frosty he-said, she-said as Brad fought for more
access to their kids.
In February,
when Angelina was promoting her movie First They Killed My Father in Cambodia,
she broke her silence on the split, telling the BBC, "We are and forever
will be a family. And so that is how I'm coping. I'm coping with finding a way
through to make sure this somehow makes us stronger and closer."
It was only
weeks later that we discovered the exact meaning behind her words. Brad had
secretly traveled to Cambodia as well, on a prearranged trip so he could spend
time with the children. While Brad and Angelina opted to stay in different
accommodations, it was still a clear improvement from the bitter rivalry that
had split their family apart the previous fall.
So what
changed? A source explains, "Brad was shocked at how quickly their family
just blew up. Both him and Angelina had always led very private lives and did
everything they could to stay out of the public eye for the children's sake.
That was an important value and vision that they both shared. And then, for
Brad, it felt like she took the kids away and started an all-out war, and that
was hard for him to reconcile.
"They
did not speak at all for months," the source continues. "He was
furious with her in a way he has never been furious before. This was a defining
moment in his life and he felt devastated and lost without his kids. He wanted
to protect them but everything was discussed through lawyers."
According to
a source, from the very start Brad hoped the details of their split would
remain confidential, but it took some time for both of them to agree on their
differences. "They have made some progress and are taking small steps in
the right direction. Both are in agreement on putting the kids first. So that
part of the equation is better."
It's now
been seven months since Angelina's surprise filing and, while things are far
from the fairy tale we once imagined their life to be, the Jolie-Pitts are
managing to regain some of the privacy they once enjoyed. The kids are now
rebuilding their relationship with their father, and the actors who first met
when they played an embattled couple in Mr. and Mrs. Smith are finally on
speaking terms. Things are starting to go back to a new kind of normal for the
clan.
"The
kids have always adored Brad and have a very solid relationship with him,"
says a friend of the pair. "He is a fun dad and extremely loving and
affectionate but definitely the disciplinarian and stricter of the two parents.
They have occasional moments, like any parents and kids do, but at the end of
the day there is nothing but love, role modeling and guidance at the
core."
Therapists
have also helped bring the family back together. "Angelina regrets the way
she handled certain things and wants to be at peace with Brad," the friend
says. And Brad "will continue to put the kids first and not say anything
negative about their mother.
"He
feels like his life fell apart in one day. His kids are everything to him and
their happiness and success is what's most important. He would never ever put
them through what they went through if he could have prevented it."
As far as
those inevitable rumors that the pair might become the Elizabeth Taylor and
Richard Burton of the modern era, our sources say a romantic reconciliation is
very unlikely. "Brad is way too upset still. He blames Angie for how
public everything became," one insider says. "He knows that
eventually it is best to forgive her and be on good terms for the sake of the
children but he feels let down in a way he never thought was possible. He saw a
different side of her and he can't forget. The way everything went down has
been beyond comprehension."
Although the
source does warn us that, when it comes to these two, you can "never say
never."
Angelina has
also been doing her part to try to heal the inevitable pain a family feels when
it is torn apart. While initially choosing to rent a Malibu home for her and
the children to reside in post-blowup, she has now forked out $25 million so
the kids can live just a few streets away from the home they shared with their
dad in Los Feliz. "Going back and forth from Malibu was far and
inconvenient," confirms an insider. "They will be moving in this
summer and will continue to see Brad more regularly."
Ultimately,
there are six young people who matter more to Brad and Angelina than any slight
or hurt feelings.
"It all
comes down to what's best for the kids," the source says, "and Brad
hopes that somehow, some way, they will come out of this stronger and better
off.He is going to devote his life to being the best dad he can be."
Source: E!
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