Classmate from 50 years ago donates kidney to sick man
Charlie Ball
and Kenneth Walker went to school together more than 50 years ago and now live
on opposite coasts. But despite the time and distance between them, the two are
now sharing more than high school memories.
Walker and
Ball are alumni of Archbishop Carroll High School in Washington, D.C. Even
though they both graduated in 1969, the two never really spoke to one another.
But when Walker sent out an email last year to his old classmates asking for a
kidney, Ball said he recognized the name.
He decided
to respond. If he was a match, he told Walker, he would donate his kidney.
“Understandably,
I think no one I’ve spoken to would do this,” Ball told CNN from the hospital
after the surgery. “It depends on the person, I guess.”
It only took
a few months to set everything up. The classmates reunited in Washington, DC,
where Walker still lives.
In March,
they attended a dinner with about 20 classmates, reminiscing and making up for
lost time.
Then,
earlier this week, they walked into George Washington University Hospital to
undergo the life-saving procedure.
Walker
became ill while working as a bureau chief for National Public Radio in South
Africa. There, he was misdiagnosed and received incorrect treatment. By the
time he came back to the US about 18 months ago, he knew his days were numbered
if he didn’t find a solution.
Walker was
in desperate need of a kidney and put his name down on every wait list. But one
of the high school friends he maintained contact with had a different idea.
“One of
[our] other classmates said ‘Well, did you check with the school?'” Ball told
CNN.
Walker
obtained an e-mail list from the school, and he sent out a call for help in
November. The subject line of the message was, simply, “A request for life.”
“It is
nearly impossible for me to come to terms with what I must ask of you, and that
is your help in finding a kidney donor so that I can have a chance to improve
my quality of life — and perhaps even to extend it beyond the expected span of
a dialysis patient,” Walker wrote.
He then
explained how difficult it is to get a viable kidney for transplant. He told
his classmates he completely understood if no one felt comfortable with such a
request, but that he wanted to share his story to raise awareness anyway.
“Consider
being an organ donor after death and also, help me by sharing my story with
everyone you know. At the very least, I want to bring awareness to kidney
disease and living donation,” he wrote.
“I am
hopeful my efforts will help me receive a kidney sooner and encourage others to
consider helping the many people on the wait list.”
Less than 15
minutes later, Ball responded.
“I will call
the hospital in the a.m.,” he wrote. “I pray that you get what you need.”
The response
blew Walker away.
“Immediately,
I get this response from Charlie and you’re suspicious. What’s wrong with this
guy?” Walker said. He said that Ball’s decision to help a black man was a
breath of fresh air in a political environment that he says has too much racial
tension.
Ball’s
generosity could’ve been an issue since doctors told him they usually don’t
accept donors over the age of 60. But since he was in such good physical
condition, it was possible. He had many tests done in California before even
flying to DC to meet with Walker.
“I responded
and said, ‘well I’ll just take the tests and if it goes well I’ll end up in my
current condition,” Ball said. “I passed all the tests.”
Ball’s
family was concerned before the surgery, but recognized that his passion for
volunteer work was just one of the factors that helped him make the decision.
Ball has said for years, he’s looked to a quote attributed to Saint Francis of
Assisi: “It is in giving that we receive.”
Now, the men
are focused on recovery. They are both doing well and are looking forward to
leaving the hospital this week.
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